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Why I have always been attracted to older men.

My family have been asking me this question for years now.
Mabey its the father figure element or mabey its the fact that younger men are way too immature for me. Believe me,I have tried dating younger men but it never went past mabey the third date,they're just so childish.
I mean,who wants a man who takes longer than you to get ready or taking you out to him is clubbing,getting you as drunk as possible and coaxing you off to bed. Then there is the jealousy issue, now don't even try to lie by saying you don't feel threatened. Any woman who dates a younger or her age guy will sometime or the other get jealous. He tries to look better than you and there's nothing so self-full filling than having his ego stroked by other women,you constantly have to look over your shoulders for the cat claws out to get you.
That's just my opinion ladies,please don't get upset. I just prefer being an old man's darling than a young man's slave. Older men has been there,done that. They have had their fair share of heartache,partying and so on. If he still wants to party then he is definitely going through a mid-life crisis,I suggest then you steer clear. Mostly they just want to settle down and enjoy life. Ladies be independent(just enough to show him you're not a gold digger)but not too independent(you'll scare him off)he likes to know that he is useful by caring for you. Why older men likes younger women baffles me, what I do understand is when she is mature for her age(fighting over who has the bigger side of the bed,or who's hogging the duve' doesn't count). But the point I suppose of any relationship is still the petty things that we fight about. My husband likes to watch comedys by smiling and not laughing,whereas I love to laugh hysterically! Or he complains that I spend more time with my cellphone than with him,but when my cellphone broke he bought me another one. His favorite movies are KUNG-FU,mine are more new school. I cannot trust him to rent dvd's(he hires only kung-fu's and seems genuinely disappointed if I refuse to watch with him). Then I feel sorry for him and sit through hours of torture. His favorite movie stars are: Rocky,Steven Segal, and his favorite music is: Andre' Botchelli and any old school jazz. But no matter what I hate about him and how he feels about my taste in music(he says older men appreciate the finer things in life)we share a few things in common,such as the fact that we both LOVE our kids and would do anything for them,and we love and adore each other. No matter who we marry or who we date the main reason for being with someone is to complete us or be an extension of us. And sometimes its a love-hate relationship but there are times when we hate ourselves,but we learn to live with our faults. As long as our partner doesn't physically or emotionally abuse us we should be just fine.
*ps-this is only my opinion so don't take what I say seriously and go and enjoy life,LOVE and everything life has to offer.*
Till next time
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This country is messed up.

This is one messed up country, I'm sitting at the day hospital at 9:30pm at night with my sick and feverish 3 year old. I'm definitely thinking bout how I'm missing my girls Blair and Sabrina(gossip girls-sabc 3, 9:00pm every nite) I guess no gossip for me 2nite. Its amazing that in todays health system a Doctor can walk past a child whimpering in pain and expect hi/her to wait their turn. What has satan created? Well that's life I suppose, my wild child has managed to fall the hell out of himself from the couch. Tarzan can't understand the words "don't jump on the couch!". As I approached him to take him off he wanted to take his last head-dive into the couch,missing by centimeters the back rest and diving right over,falling on is head. All I saw was legs flailing as he tried to balance his fall. I didn't respond the way a mother should,I laughed,told him it was his own fault and then comforted him. Now don't you blame me!,we all have moments where our kids refuse to listen to us and when they get hurt we feel on the inside that should teach them a lesson,or that they deserve it. As long as he doesn't get hurt. Well,I picked him up and dusted him off. That's what life is: when something happens,you pick yourself up and dust yourself off. That's what we teach our kids from birth(the trying to sit stage,the trying to crawl stage,the walking stage)that's life. Going to school,college,university(mabey)finding a job,being promoted etc. I think that people who give up on life and its problems(suicide) were most probably babies who got easily frustrated when the had to aim for the next milestone,trying to walk,falling,reaching for a certain toy,not being able to reach it. These babies scream in frustration at their mother to give it or they just give up. You as the parent shape their identity,will you give them their way or make them work for it. Hello? That's why God created chores,to teach youngsters responsibility. I mean, I hated chores,but what could I do? Today I'm a mum of two, college girl and what kind of person would I be if not for chores? I can't learn that on the job,I must know how,nor can I get lazy,who's gonna do it? Motherhood is the only job I think where you learn on the job.
Still in the day-hospital,haven't been seen yet,see you at the second coming as that's when I'm breaking out of this prison. I can't help but think that mabey if I just took the time and had the patience to take my son off the couch I wouldn't be sitting here, let's hope its the flu,so I can get some pills and get outta here!this is your GIRL signing off,till we chat again.
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